This was posted over 19 years ago; my opinions, thoughts, attitude, and writing style may have evolved since then, and this post might have been different if it were to be posted today.
it’s true, you know!
for future reference, make sure that the button says “SEARCH” and not “INVITE” when you put someone’s email address in. now i just hope that their email address isn’t what i was guessing it to be! yikes!