She messaged me on Sunday and we had a good three hour long FaceTime chat over what we’re both looking for and things are much better now that we’re both on the same page. There were uncomfortable bits during that call for both of us, not going to lie, but it felt good to be honest with each other over what we each want and what the other person can do better. We actually started with just chatting about how our weekends were, but when we decided it was time to talk about tougher issues we went from “are we still even together at this point?” confusion and ended with planning a trip together to look at the leaves changing this weekend in the span of that call. I’m feeling much more positive about things now. 🙂