hehehe… this is funny to wake up, go to the bathroom, and then sit down and listen to this song first thing in the morning… ^_^
looks like they rescheduled the rescheduling of the rescheduled package that was scheduled to be delivered today so now the rescheduled delivery date is tomorrow! huzzah! ^__^
i guess i’ll finally cave in and take that darn color quiz… ^_^;; but, note my strategy… i’m not lazy… i’m just waiting for everyone else to do it so when i do this quiz and post the results, since i’m the only one with results you want to read it! ~_^
your existing situation:
Seeks to share a bond of understanding intimacy in an esthetic atmosphere of peace and tenderness.
your stress sources:
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his own character, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference he really longs for the approval and esteem of others.
your restrained characteristics:
Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing him to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.
your desired objective:
Wants to establish himself and make an impact despite unfavorable circumstances and a general lack of appreciation.
your actual problem:
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety. Desires recognition and position, but is worried about his prospects. Reacts to this by protecting at any criticism and resisting any attempt to influence him. Tries to assert himself by meticulous control of detail in an effort to strengthen his position.
your actual problem #2:
Needs to be valued and respected as an exceptional individual, in order to increase his self-esteem and his feeling of personal worth. Resists mediocrity and sets himself high standards.
bingo! it’s right on the button. ^_^;